For a while (in my yuff) I used to think that I was the only guy with this problem. You get a girl that’s hotter than you’ve ever dreamed. She’s perfect in every way but mostly physically. After more than a handful of bangs you’re on cloud nine and everything is great. Then all of a sudden, one day you start asking yourself if you can do better or is this the best that you can get. Some men have a deep fear of just settling for what’s right there in front of them, spending the rest of their days wondering if they could have done better than the woman he ended up with. This is why most of them (us) get the idea to 1up rather than just settle.

• Lonely Single in Canada

My mentor PHD and I had a deep phone conversation the other night. Both of us were known for our philandering ways back when we were in relationships many years ago but now more than ever the next girl we end up with, we won’t cheat on. This topic came about when we discussed how a married friend of ours usually takes of his wedding ring and parties single style when he’s up in da club.

• Chatroulette Chat Rooms

The real problem is when you first leave school no matter how much experience you have with women, no matter how much you think you know, when you get to the real world you realize there’s so much more to learn so much more to explore. With each passing year with each encounter you gain that much more experience, confidence. You’re moving up in your career, making more money, staying hungry and in shape. You’re stock rises as single guy so your incentive to 1up is that much stronger. You can keep this act up well into your mid 30’s no problem. The same unfortunately can’t be said for women.

• Canadian Single Pen Pals

The flip side is the longer you’re out here on the streets on the chase, you’ll soon realize that all these girls fuck the same, they just wear different clothes. There is a tipping point. The trick is have a game plan and get out at the top of your game with the best that you can get. I always marvel at guys who are habitual 1upers, how they stay hungry after so many years. I have this other friend who constantly hooks up, but no matter how hot the girl is he’ll find a flaw in her physically. One of my favorites was the time he told me that a 23 year old had bad crows feet, in the morning, with no make up on. Apparently it was bad for someone her age. Then one night as soon as he was finished chatting up and number closing this brunette hottie he turns to me and says, “their was something about her teeth”. Man, he hasn’t even slept with this girl or seen her naked and already he found something to complain about. Oh he knows who he is, good thing the girl turned out to be a semi tennis pro = hard body.

• Latin Men and Women in Canada

Its weird a girl will date a goddamn midget if he treats her right and has enough money. Apparently a men can grow on women after a period of time. But if a guy finds one thing wrong with a woman physically he’ll get the need to 1up. (really?!? You think you could have yelled this bit of information out while cock face was spitting fire at my ass) Some guys can keep going with the 1ups. Then again you play the game long enough and you get tired of rescuing these princesses to only find out they’re toads and you have to move on to the next level to do it all over again. Eventually you’re like, “fuck it, I’ll take the toad over having to redo another level to end up with another impostor. Besides my fingers hurt”. But if you do actually get the princess things could get one hundred times harder on the “Lost Levels” tip. Damned if you do Damned if you don’t

• Canadian Sugar Dating